The run sheet
The gratitude lesson and noticing map
Gratitude leaves room for sadness, protest, support, and care.
Hold this while you teach
45 min totalWelcome and noticing
“Notice one ordinary thing in the room. Draw, point, use AAC, move, or pass.”
Instead: Offer a walk-to-a-mark route or a quiet listening seat.
Read and retell
“Who called for mercy, what did Jesus ask, and who returned?”
Instead: Retell with picture symbols and keep personal stories out of the discussion.
Teach gratitude and honesty
“Gratitude notices a gift and turns toward God or another person with thanks. It does not erase a hard thing.”
Instead: Use the SUPPORT card for a child who is not ready to feel thankful.
Noticing Map activity
“Use one box, several boxes, a drawing, a movement, or a pass.”
Instead: Give a fictional example before offering the map.
Discussion
“Answer about the text or a fictional example, never a private hardship.”
Instead: Accept pointing, partner dictation, AAC, or silence.
Optional prayer and quiet
“Listen to the prayer, draw, move, look around, or pass.”
Instead: Return to a neutral activity when the group needs it.
Close and family card
“You can be grateful and still need help. A caring adult will listen.”
Instead: Repeat the stop signal and the local safeguarding route.
Objective and materials
Objective
Children can identify one observable gift, describe one way thanks can lead to care, and choose a response that leaves room for a hard feeling.
Materials
- · An approved Bible or WEB references
- · Visual schedule and a PASS card
- · Noticing Map sheet and the NOTICE, THANK, SHARE, and SUPPORT cards
- · Crayons, pencils, blank paper, or AAC symbols
- · Optional movement objects and a no-writing route
- · Family take-home card
- · A named safeguarding lead and the host organisation's policy
Scripture and context
Reference: Luke 17:11–19
Ten people call to Jesus for mercy. One returns, praises God, and thanks Jesus after they are made clean.
The story asks us to notice mercy. It is not a formula that says every illness disappears or a reason to blame someone who remains sick.
Reference: 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18
The letter joins joy, prayer, and thanks while addressing a community living through varied circumstances.
In all circumstances does not mean for every harm. A person can thank God for a friend and feel sadness about a loss on the same day.
Reference: Psalm 13
This prayer asks how long and makes room for sorrow before turning toward trust.
Lament keeps gratitude from becoming a demand for cheerful answers or a way to silence a concern.
Activity cards
I NOTICE
3 minOne ordinary gift to see, hear, feel, or remember.
Use a drawing, point, dictated phrase, or pass.
Choose one: Say thanks, point, dictate, or use AAC. · Draw, colour, stand, or walk to a marked place. · Listen while the adult reads, or pass.
I THANK
3 minA person, God, or community an adult may thank when it is safe and wanted.
A child never has to thank a person who is unsafe.
Choose one: Say thanks, point, dictate, or use AAC. · Draw, colour, stand, or walk to a marked place. · Listen while the adult reads, or pass.
I SHARE / CARE
3 minOne small way to pass care along in a fictional or observable situation.
Example: offer a turn, hold a door, or help water a plant.
Choose one: Say thanks, point, dictate, or use AAC. · Draw, colour, stand, or walk to a marked place. · Listen while the adult reads, or pass.
I AM HONEST
3 minSomething hard to name, or support an adult may help with.
A child may leave the box blank, use SUPPORT, or pass.
Choose one: Say thanks, point, dictate, or use AAC. · Draw, colour, stand, or walk to a marked place. · Listen while the adult reads, or pass.
Discussion and optional quiet
- 01
What did the returning person notice in the story?
Optional response: Point to a story detail, draw, use AAC, or pass.
- 02
How can thanks lead to care for a neighbour?
Optional response: Use an observable or fictional example rather than a private family story.
- 03
Can someone be thankful and sad on the same day?
Optional response: A child may point to Psalm 13, name a general feeling, or pass.
- 04
Which response fits today: draw, move, listen, say thanks, ask for support, or pass?
Optional response: The adult accepts a choice without scoring or correcting it.
God of mercy, thank you for the gifts we notice and the people who help us. Keep us honest about what is hard. Teach us to respond with thanks, sharing, and care. Bring a trusted adult close when someone needs help. Amen.
Take-home strip
Five minutes of notice and care
- · Look or listen: notice one ordinary gift.
- · Name: thank God or a safe person, or say not today.
- · Share: choose one small caring action.
- · Support: name an adult who can help with something hard.
- · Pass: drawing, moving, listening, silence, or stopping are welcome.
- · Try this once. There is no streak or report-back.
LISTEN · DRAW · MOVE · SPEAK · AAC · PASS
Our paraphrase, not Scripture text. Exact wording: World English Bible (public domain).
Prepare a noticing space
Section 01
Preview Luke 17:11–19 and 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 in the family's approved Bible. Set out the visual schedule, the four map cards, a PASS card, drawing tools, and a no-writing route.
The shared use strip is: Adult-led · Ages approximately 4–12 · Participation is optional. Follow local safeguarding and inclusion policy, and name a trained safeguarding lead before the session.
Read with honest context
Section 02
The Gospel story asks adults to notice mercy and a returning response. It is not a formula that says every illness disappears, and it never blames someone who remains sick.
Our paraphrase, not Scripture text. Exact wording: World English Bible (public domain). The words in all circumstances do not mean for every harm. A person can thank God for a friend and feel sadness about a loss on the same day.
Use the four-box map
Section 03
The Noticing Map holds I NOTICE, I THANK, I SHARE / CARE, and I AM HONEST. Give a fictional example first, then let each person choose one box, several boxes, a drawing, a dictated answer, or a pass.
Keep the choice line visible: LISTEN · DRAW · MOVE · SPEAK · AAC · PASS. The support box belongs in a gratitude lesson because faith leaves room for lament and a request for help.
Protect honest answers
Section 04
Never demand thanks for harm, loss, illness, poverty, or injustice. A child may say not today, leave a box blank, name general support, or pass without explanation.
If a child raises a concern, pause, listen without leading questions, thank them, and use the trained local safeguarding pathway. Do not turn the map into an investigation or a public testimony.
Send one family sheet
Section 05
The take-home is one sheet, not another deck. It offers five optional moves: notice, name, share, support, and pass. An adult can read it aloud, repeat it later, or leave it unused.
Close by saying that gratitude and sadness can coexist. Prayer may accompany practical support, medical care, school help, mental-health care, or safeguarding action when someone needs more help.
Safeguarding
The first two lines are words you can say. The third is your own next step.
Stop · words to say
You do not have to keep going. We can stop, open our eyes, move, get water, or sit with a trusted grown-up.
Adapt · words to say
You can listen while I read, draw, move, keep your eyes open, use AAC, or pass.
Get help · your next step
Contact a pediatrician, school counselor, qualified child mental-health professional, or safeguarding lead when concern persists or affects daily life. Use local emergency services for immediate danger, self-harm thoughts, serious breathing trouble, or an unsafe disclosure; in the United States, call or text 988 for a mental-health crisis.
Sources
| Publisher | What it supports | Checked |
|---|---|---|
| World English Bibleebible.org | Public-domain wording and the reference-first Scripture policy. | 2026-08-03 |
| NAEYC Developmentally Appropriate Practicenaeyc.org | Playful, strengths-based, culturally and ability-aware facilitation. | 2026-08-03 |
| CAST UDL Guidelines 3.0udlguidelines.cast.org | Multiple ways to engage, respond, communicate, and pass. | 2026-08-03 |
| UNICEF safeguarding policyunicef.org | Preventive safeguarding, safe reporting, and trained adult response. | 2026-08-03 |
| Church of England safeguarding guidancechurchofengland.org | Partner organisations use their own trained safeguarding pathway. | 2026-08-03 |
Frequently asked questions
- Does gratitude mean a child must say everything is good?
- No. The lesson makes room for sadness, anger, loss, injustice, and support. A child may say not today, use the honest box, choose the support card, leave a box blank, or pass without explaining.
- Which Bible passages does the lesson teach?
- The primary story is Luke 17:11–19, read in context, with 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 as a companion. The adult should read the full passages in an approved Bible rather than using an isolated line as a guarantee.
- Can a child thank someone who is unsafe?
- No. Safety comes first. The prompt says only if safe and wanted. Redirect to a trusted adult or safeguarding route, and never use the activity to obtain a family detail or a public explanation.
- Is the Noticing Map a gratitude journal?
- No. It is one optional lesson response with a support box. The sheet does not require a daily record, a streak, or a personal story. A child may draw, dictate, point, leave it blank, or pass.
- What if the activity brings up a disclosure?
- Pause and listen without leading questions. Thank the child, do not promise secrecy, and contact the trained safeguarding lead or emergency service under the host policy. Do not ask the child to repeat the story in front of peers.
- Will gratitude improve a child's mood or behaviour?
- No outcome is promised. The lesson teaches a Christian response of noticing, thanks, honesty, and care. A practical or professional support route remains appropriate when a concern affects safety or daily life.
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